How to Design a Wedding That Truly Reflects You — Beyond the Trends
1. Discovering Your Vision: What Questions to Ask
Every couple dreams of a wedding that feels like them — not just another “Pinterest-perfect” event. But with so many ideas and trends floating around, it can be tricky to figure out what’s truly your style. Here’s how to design a wedding that reflects your story, your values, and your unique love — not just what’s popular right now.
Before you start picking colors or venues, take a step back and think about the bigger picture. Ask yourselves:
What do we want our guests to feel?
What moments or memories matter most to us?
Is there a place, season, or experience that feels special in our story?
These answers will guide every creative choice. Maybe your ideal day feels intimate and candlelit, or maybe it’s a lively dinner party under the stars. When you define the feeling first, the visuals naturally follow.
2. Translating Vision into Design Decisions
Once you have a clear vision, bring it to life through thoughtful design choices.
Colors: Choose hues that match your story — maybe your favorite sunset tones, or the soft greens of your favorite hiking spot.
Venues: Look for spaces that match your energy. A cozy Boston restaurant, a modern art gallery, or a coastal venue all tell different stories.
Decor: Add meaningful touches — handwritten notes, family photos, or locally inspired details that guests will remember.
Every design element should connect back to your story, not just an image you saved on Instagram.
3. Avoiding the Trend Trap
Trends can be fun, but they shouldn’t define your day. A simple rule: if you love it because it feels like you, keep it. If you love it because it’s everywhere, pause.
It’s easy to feel pressure to create a “viral wedding,” but authenticity never goes out of style. Choose moments that matter — like a custom ceremony reading or your favorite meal served family-style — and you’ll love looking back on your photos for years to come.
4. Working with Your Planner or Designer
Your planner or designer is your creative partner in bringing your vision to life. Come prepared to share your story, your priorities, and your must-haves. Don’t be afraid to ask:
How do you approach incorporating a couple’s personality into the design?
What’s your process for refining ideas without losing authenticity?
How do you balance aesthetics with guest experience?
The right planner or designer will help you filter ideas, refine your vision, and craft a cohesive, meaningful celebration that truly feels like you.
Final Word
Your wedding isn’t just a single day — it’s a reflection of your journey together. When you design from the heart, every detail feels effortless, intentional, and uniquely yours.
If you’re interested in finding out what your style is or how to create a wedding that reflects you.. feel free to get in touch through the inquiry box and I will respond back with a free design question checklist that you can use to uncover your own unique style before you dive into full on planning.
x Cory
