Should we do a First Look or Wait for the Aisle?

Private First Look vs Aisle Reveal

One of the most exciting moments on your wedding day is the first time you see each other — but should that happen privately before the ceremony, or down the aisle in front of everyone? The choice between a “first look” and a traditional aisle reveal is deeply personal, and there’s no right or wrong answer. It all depends on the kind of experience you want to have on your special day.

A first look is when couples share a private moment together before the ceremony. It’s often emotional, intimate, and helps calm those pre-wedding nerves. Many couples love that it gives them time to connect, take photos while their hair and makeup are fresh, and enjoy a few quiet minutes before the whirlwind begins. Logistically, it can also make the day smoother — photos can be done early, freeing up time to actually enjoy cocktail hour and celebrate with guests.

On the other hand, waiting for the aisle preserves the traditional magic of seeing each other for the first time as the ceremony begins. The emotion of that moment — surrounded by loved ones, music playing, all eyes on you — can be incredibly powerful. For couples who dream of that cinematic “aisle moment,” there’s nothing quite like locking eyes for the first time at the altar. It also keeps the anticipation building throughout the morning, making the ceremony feel even more meaningful.

Ultimately, whether you choose a first look or wait for the aisle, it should reflect your personalities and priorities. If you value privacy and connection, a first look might be perfect. If you love the tradition and want that grand reveal, waiting for the aisle can make it unforgettable. Either way, the moment you see each other for the first time will be one you’ll never forget — and that’s what truly matters.

x Cory